As an LGBTQ+ community member I am grateful for the humanity you expressed in the resistance you encountered when first learning of the struggle of people who are trans. I am also grateful for your challenge to others not in the community to do their own research to reduce the emotional labor burden on community members. Thank you for sharing.
My grandson came out as "him" at age 17. When my son called to tell me about his coming-out conversation, I said, "This will take some time as I just lost a granddaughter, but of course I will accept him." My very wise and caring son said, "Mom, nothing has changed except his name. He is still the same wonderful person." Immediately, I changed my perspective with no moment lost in our relationship. Thanks, Colleen for sharing your story.
As an LGBTQ+ community member I am grateful for the humanity you expressed in the resistance you encountered when first learning of the struggle of people who are trans. I am also grateful for your challenge to others not in the community to do their own research to reduce the emotional labor burden on community members. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for your comments Alexandria! I’m glad you’re reading.
My grandson came out as "him" at age 17. When my son called to tell me about his coming-out conversation, I said, "This will take some time as I just lost a granddaughter, but of course I will accept him." My very wise and caring son said, "Mom, nothing has changed except his name. He is still the same wonderful person." Immediately, I changed my perspective with no moment lost in our relationship. Thanks, Colleen for sharing your story.
Carol, What a beautiful story. The world needs more of your son's wisdom and your grace. XOXO, Colleen